Comments for Today You Are You: Understanding Truth & Gender Diversity

Comment on Squeaky Wheels by Scott Knowles

Scott Knowles — Thu, 09 Feb 2012 01:59:32 +0000

Wow, pure enjoyment. Really. Been there, done that, and I often hate myself afterward for venting or ranting at some person who didn’t deserve it because they didn’t cause the problem. It’s why I often resolve problems in person, including my Website host (local company), but there are times I get angry then and there too, but mostly it’s because I’m not understanding, so I’ve learned to walk away and go back when I’m smarter.

But it’s always good they know you can be demanding. Just remember to smile and say thanks at the end. I’ve often even apologized for my tune and tone for not understanding. They’ll remember you’re insistent but still personable.

Comment on The Junkyard Dog by Squeaky Wheels « Today You Are You: Understanding Truth & Gender Diversity

Wed, 08 Feb 2012 16:58:12 +0000

[...] Like when the school told me Hope couldn’t attend Kindergarten if her birth certificate said male, or when a parent at the school threatened to out us. Hell no. In those moments I loosened the reins of my vengeful beasts and let them do their job. Cleaning up the mess and making things right. There’s a reason my mother calls me a junkyard dog. [...]

Comment on Integration by TodayYouAreYou

TodayYouAreYou — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 15:51:46 +0000

Thank you… You have no idea how much that means to me.

Comment on Integration by Angela

Angela — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 18:31:04 +0000

I’m so thankful to know both as much as I do . . . you are a bright light!

Comment on Not Lost Anymore by TodayYouAreYou

TodayYouAreYou — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 11:57:58 +0000

Thank you Abby, I think it’s powerful when we remind ourselves that we aren’t alone.

Comment on Not Lost Anymore by Abby

Abby — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 06:04:11 +0000

How absolutely beautiful, and so reflective of my own process in recent weeks. – listening to my body; reminding myself that I am enough, just the way I am. Thank you. It’s nice to know there is another soul out there who understands. *Hugs*

Comment on Integration by urbanmythcafe

urbanmythcafe — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 01:44:14 +0000

I feel the need to share a little story, that relates to your glasses.

From about 1995, to 2003, I had the great fortune to make my living as a clown (motivational circus shows in elementary schools on weekdays, fairs and festivals on the weekend). After a few years, I found myself increasingly clowning without a face. I am sure that the kids didn’t notice. This is when I had truly become a clown. (The frequent twist upon this is when I would walk around at an event, holding paint brushes, in tears, because I had forgotten to put on my face. So, the kids would grab a brush and paint on my head while I sat on the ground. These are some of my favorite memories from the entire period.)

The point is, there is a power in removing a costume, or glasses, just like there is a power, and a magic, in putting them on. There is a power in anonymity, and a different power in outness. There is also a pull toward each, and a balance, as you express in your post.

Keep doing what you are doing.

Peace, Jimothy

Comment on Integration by John

John — Thu, 26 Jan 2012 14:22:50 +0000

Not long ago, I heard a presentation from Michael Adee, the director of More Light Presbyterians, a group seeking the full participation of LGBTQ people in the Presbyterian Church. One of his quotes struck a chord deep within me: “Orientation is a gift. It’s OK not to know how to unwrap it.” Your post reminded me of that quote. Thank you for unpacking it so eloquently.

Comment on Integration by TodayYouAreYou

TodayYouAreYou — Thu, 26 Jan 2012 01:27:53 +0000

I walk a fine line. It’s as if part of my life is stealth, too. I guess it gives me some worthy insight so I can help my daughter along the way. If you want to talk more specifics, email me at Jen@JenniferCarrBooks.com. I’ll help in any way I can. My Best, Jen

Comment on Integration by TodayYouAreYou

TodayYouAreYou — Thu, 26 Jan 2012 01:24:31 +0000

I absolutely agree, Katie. We all hide & share as life allows. It’s a learning process, and I recognize that. Thank you for being a support and an inspiration. Best, Jen